ARE YOUR MONEY BELIEFS AND SELF-WORTH SUPPORTING YOUR GROWTH, OR KEEPING YOU STUCK?
We’re often told that working hard equals more breakthroughs. But in my experience, I’ve learned that it’s how you think that truly unfolds the change you’re seeking.
Over the years, I often found myself feeling completely lost, unsure of which way to go or what to do next. While it wasn’t always that way, more often than not, I felt unfulfilled in my work, underpaid, and confused about my purpose. So, I decided to trust myself and said yes to what felt right, even if it didn’t feel safe. I didn’t have much money in the bank, and I struggled with fear and self-doubt. But my desire to move forward and embrace new opportunities far outweighed the fear of staying stuck.
I’m not going to lie, it wasn’t easy. I didn’t realize I was carrying deep-rooted beliefs — especially around money. Some of these beliefs were: money is hard to earn, real success is for other people, (not for us, as a family), or you should’ve chosen a career with a better future. (I majored in communications, and that message stuck with me for years.)
I grew up thinking money was scarce — that it was hard to come by and even harder to keep. Without even knowing it, I had placed money on a pedestal, making it feel distant and out of reach. These beliefs shaped the way I saw myself and what I thought was possible for me. It affected other areas of my life as well. I faced moments of self-doubt, loneliness and disappointment.
I was frustrated. On one hand, I knew I didn’t want to settle; I couldn’t shake the feeling that there was more out there for me. But on the other hand, I had no idea what to do or how to make things change. I felt stuck between desire and confusion.
In my desperation to find answers, I unknowingly began my personal development journey. I dove into books and courses on mindset, money, energy, beliefs, and spirituality. I practiced gratitude, forgave myself for past decisions, and focused on what I already had and my own progress, instead of comparing myself to others.
Deep inner work has taught me so much and helped me grow in ways I never imagined.
I no longer view money the same way. I’ve strengthened my sense of worth and confidence, and I’ve kept the faith as I’ve navigated the unknown.
